(( I actually got into cross dressing when I started cosplaying. I mean, I’d done a little bit here and there growing up, but once I started dressing up for cons, it helped me ease into a comfortable place. I realized how much I enjoyed being androgynous and started transferring those styles/preferences into my everyday life.
It’s not easy trying to find clothes that can mask your natural anatomy convincingly, but that’s when you start messing around and having fun with it.
Some basic tips for transforming your appearance:
Female:
- Contouring Makeup (if necessary)
- Wig or a feminine cut
- Circle Contact lenses
- Padded Bra/contouring
- Clothing that creates the illusion of curves
- Tucking (Usually sports tape or undergarments that keep everything down there secure, However, make sure you do your own research on safety measures before taking this approach.)
Male:
- Contouring makeup (if necessary)
- Masculine haircut (or creating the illusion of short hair through wigs, hats, fake bangs, etc.)
- Layered or loose clothing that enhances shoulders and reduces hips.
- Chest binder (DO NOT USE Ace Bandages, only binders specifically designed for trans individuals.)
- Illusion of a package (yup…)
The links are just a few sources that I quickly looked up, but if you’d like to find styles and methods that you feel more comfortable with, feel free to do your own research, there are endless sources out there. 🙂 Most of my development came through my own experimenting, so play around with styles and see what fits.
Last but not least:
Don’t stress about pulling it off or not, just dress in a way that you enjoy. People are going to think what they will, and it may not be what you want, but don’t let it bother you. If you’re comfortable with yourself, and know who you are, no other opinion will matter. Just be you. 🙂 ))
A Madness Between Two 